De ce acest blogger mamica nu ma va trimite inapoi? De ce exista un trafic atat de redus pe blogul meu? ce fac gresit?
Toti vroiati sa stiti cateva standarde de baza ale blogului, nu-i asa? O mica clasa de mini etichete aici pe blogul meu? Exista o multime de teme de abordat pe subiect, inclusiv comportamentul comentariilor, atribuirea postarilor, blog-urile, formatarea, dezvaluirea informatiilor personale, dependenta de blog, granitele si multe altele.
Iata cateva sfaturi fara o ordine anume:
Punctuatie si gramatica: trebuie sa spun ca este numarul 1 din cartea mea. Nu-mi place sa citesc bloguri care nu au o punctuatie si o gramatica buna. De asemenea, nu-mi place cand o postare de monstru mare este tot un paragraf. Este dificil de citit si o oprire majora! Este destul de greu sa treci printr-o postare super lunga care este placuta de citit si curge ca un roman … asa ca ar trebui sa te astepti ca orice altceva sa nu obtina mult trafic. A spus Nuff.
Blogroll-uri: fiti la fel de generosi cu tranzactionarea blogroll-urilor, asa cum doriti ca altii sa fie alaturi de dvs., dar nu va plangeti niciodata si nu va asteptati la reciprocitate. Niciun blogger nu iti datoreaza acest „link”. Nu, nici macar daca le-ai regasit pe blog pentru totdeauna si le-ai trimis e-mailuri care sa le spuna cat de mult ii iubesti. Intrebi o singura data, spera la un da sau nu politicos, apoi il lasi sa plece. Acest lucru este insotit de a da comentarii si de a nu le primi inapoi de pe blogurile pe care le cititi. Nu este nimic personal. M-am ocupat de asta de cateva ori, dar continuu sa le citesc blogurile. Daca sunt scriitori buni, au un continut excelent si iti dau un hohot de burta din cand in cand, nu trebuie sa-ti comenteze blogul sau chiar sa-ti viziteze blogul. Ti-au oferit suficient de favoare. Cu siguranta nu ne asteptam ca JK Rowling sa citeasca ceva ce am scris, chiar daca am citit toate cartile ei, nu-i asa? Poti fi fan, dar „idolul” tau nu trebuie sa se amestece. Gandeste-te asa.
Dependenta: fa-ti pace. Dezvoltati o lista de bloguri care va plac mai ales, dar nu vizitati obsesiv in fiecare zi (cu exceptia cazului in care aveti timp suplimentar pentru „mine”). Am doar o mana foarte mica pe care o vizitez in fiecare zi – stii cine esti. Altfel am vreo 50 de bloguri pe care le vizitez, dar incerc sa vizitez nu mai mult decat cateva pe zi. Am descoperit ca, trecand usor prin cateva bloguri diferite pe zi, nu-mi abandonez familia sau slujba. (Banuiesc ca eticheta blogului nr. 1 ar trebui sa fie: nu lasati viata dvs. din afara Internetului sa va sufere. Asigurati-va ca familia dvs. stie ca sunt mai intai, verificand comentariile dvs. / e-mailul / cel mai recent-cool-mom’s-blog-ul ar trebui sa fie mai tarziu in dvs. lista prioritatilor.)
Referirea la un articol sau postare: nu fiti timizi sa mentionati (si sa faceti legatura) unuia dintre postarile dvs. mai vechi atunci cand scrieti o noua postare. Nimeni nu se deranjeaza. Nu are sens sa rescriei ceva despre care ai scris deja. In ceea ce priveste mentionarea muncii altor persoane … daca faceti bloguri despre o anumita postare pe blogul altcuiva sau pe un site de stiri, ar trebui sa includeti INTOTDEAUNA linkul in textul postarii dvs. (ar putea fi un link permanent sau un link tastat). Legatura cu legatura continua corespunzatoare pare a fi mai des realizata si este cu siguranta mai utila cititorului, decat conectarea la „prima pagina” a unui blog. Daca site-ul unui blogger este configurat pentru a crea linkuri „trackback”, link-ul trackback ar trebui utilizat (cred ca bloggerul face acest lucru automat atunci cand faceti legatura cu o anumita postare). Acest lucru il ajuta pe bloggerul initial sa stie cine indica postarea lor, precum si faptul ca te ajuta sa cresti vizibilitatea blogului tau. De cateva ori am facut clic pe linkul catre un articol, oprit doar pentru ca legaturile permalink nu au functionat. Daca doriti ca cititorii dvs. sa fie conectati la o referinta incrucisata, asigurati-va ca ati testat-o!
Referring to another blogger: When you want to mention a friend or other fellow blogger, it is courteous to add a hyperlink behind their name or the name of the blog. The link should be to the front page unless you are mentioning the name in the context of a specific post. And, again, make sure your links WORK!
Comments: Comment sections are fraught with opportunities for poor etiquette, and although many bloggers have disclaimers noting their right to remove the ones that are rude or not to their liking, most have no guidelines for proper behavior.
Generally, if you are commenting on other people’s blogs frequently, it is respectful to allow comments on your own blog. Some very public figures in the blog world don’t allow comments. This seems wise as comments might get out of hand with the huge number of readers. If you want to make comments on other blogs, and you don’t have comments set up on your blog, you should offer your email address to your readers in your profile or side bar. Many smart bloggers have begun to use the anti-spider method for displaying email addresses, something like me [at] me [dot] com. An obvious signal – I don’t want you to use my email address for spam.
(That said, you could put your email up on your side bar in this format anyway. If you don’t have your email address in your blog profile, this is a safer way to “make it public” so we can contact you and share personal experiences and give you further support that we wouldn’t want everyone else seeing in your comments section.)
Also note that you can turn comments off on any (or all) of your published posts. I did this once on a “spiritual” post that I didn’t want any feedback on. Bloggers do this for a reason, so if you have a comment on a “comments closed” post, email it to the blogger or leave it alone, but don’t go to another post and leave a comment there concerning the “closed comment” post.
Appropriate comments, of course, depend on the blog and the poster. An obvious overall guideline is to take your cue from the blog author, and other “guests.” If you are on a personal blog obviously kept for a small audience of family & friends, it might be appropriate to post comments in the same tone as the posting… it would be entirely inappropriate to disagree harshly with their viewpoints (i.e. “Why are you freaking out about missing a pre-natal pill?!?! Are you kidding me?”). Generally, if a blog is personal, and you are intruding, keep your comments friendly and supportive. They aren’t asking for your “wiser” viewpoint.
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On the other hand, political blogs or other blogs where a small group of people maintain a fast and fierce dialogue about current events would be a great place to voice your disagreement (with respect, of course), especially if you have a new, informed viewpoint.
The #2 rule about appropriate comments is to always make your comments applicable and unique. If a few people have already posted saying what you’re about to say, please refrain (especially if your comment is nothing more than, “Good times!”). In addition, even if you have something REALLY great to tell everyone, don’t tell them on a comment forum unless it is applicable to the discussion at hand. Even if you are visiting your best friend’s blog, you don’t want to leave a comment advertising your literary accomplishment on a post about your friend’s latest issue with their toddler. Wait until your friend posts about the new book she’s reading, or about how much she loves you (or email her). If you’re visiting a stranger’s blog, the rule should be even more strict; wait until you see a post about all the up-and-coming writers from your neck of the woods (or email that blogger).
Hiatus: If you are on a blog drought, let us know about it. Just a one sentence post. Even if you are only gone a week, we worry about you. Even if we’ve never met you in person, we care. It’s doesn’t have to relay what you are up to, you may not want to share that. Just do like you would at a corporate office… send an email out to the whole team telling them you’ll be gone so we don’t have to wonder. Most bloggers have figured out bloglines.com or Google Reader, so when you finally post again, we won’t miss a beat to comment and say welcome back… but for those that aren’t as blog savvy yet, don’t make them waste their time checking back every day.
And lastly… 2 things…
Boundries: It’s a given we all care about each other, maybe some more than others. We may not have met in person (or maybe we’ve been aquaintances/friends/what-have-you in person)… Remember that our blogs are public, but that does not mean we are best friends because you stumbled upon us and we seem to have a lot in common. So if you send a personal email to a fellow blogger and they don’t respond, don’t take it, well, personal, but DO take it as a sign. Especially when this happens time and time again. I am the type of person that loves most people and have found so many inspiring bloggers that I would love to strike up real life friendships, but it’s not always reciprocated and that’s okay. I took it personally the first few times this happened to me, but I’ve learned that I can still be an avid reader and not be best buds with the author. Mommy blogging is not on-line mommy dating.
Personal information: We all have different levels of security on our blogs. I don’t mind calling my son and husband by their real names on my blog. I never use our last name. I never refer to our town. I never refer to my blogger friends with their real names if that does not follow suit with their blog’s level of security. There are some very protective mom bloggers out there who have given everyone in their families nicknames and/or don’t refer to even the state they live in and/or don’t even post photos of their children’s faces. No matter what level of security you use, we need to be respectful of how fellow bloggers protect their identities. NEVER divulge personal information that you may know about another blogger, a) on your blog, b) in that blogger’s comments section, c) at a blogger meet up, or d) over email without that blogger’s permission. What we post on our blogs is what we want the “public” to have access to, nothing more.
In short: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
Blogging is supposed to be fun. So if you don’t stick to the above “rules” you may not be punished for it… these are just some things I have picked up along the way. I know what I prefer… and if this benefits you, great!
Thanks for reading this super long post. I hope the grammar and spacing was to your fancy… 😉
Please email me any ideas you have and I will include them in an updated posting – ihartpartly [at] hotmail [dot] com
(I will be adding this post to my sidebar for constant reference, feel free to do the same.)
DISCLAIMER: Please don’t take offense to my observations… I am not pin pointing anyone… I read all kinds of blogs, but most bloggers follow these “rules” because a lot of this stuff makes sense and seems silly to be posting about.
