Dragi probleme narcisiste,




Am 22 de ani si am un fiu in varsta de 5 luni cu acest tip. El este prima mea iubire. Nu sunt deschis sa ma impartasesc cu ceilalti, deoarece ma tem sa nu fiu ranit, dar ma inteleg cu oricine. De obicei ii pun pe altii inaintea mea, gasesc bucurie in a-i ajuta pe ceilalti si a-i ajuta mai bine pe ei insisi ma face sa ma simt bine cu mine. misa amane porn www.meijindao.com Am fost dedicat scolii si baschetului pana cand l-am cunoscut, lucrurile au devenit stancoase.




Mama nu era acolo cu adevarat pentru mine, dar inca o iubesc. Locuiesc cu tatal meu, care este un ofiter de politie pensionat si este destul de fain doar pentru mine, mi-a fost greu sa-mi exprim dragostea, intrucat este si el linistit si pentru sine, dar imi iubesc parintii, indiferent de greutatile prin care am trecut. Am 3 surori si 6 frati prietenii mei din ultimii ani. hitler porn www.bookmarking-maze.win




Am fost virgina pana la 19 ani si am fost doar cu 3 tipi si unul fiind cel cu care sunt si este cel cu care sunt cel mai confortabil, el este cel cu care m-am conectat si il iubesc mai mult decat orice si m-am gandit ca nu m-ar strica niciodata.




I’ve been with this guy for almost 3 years now. At first things were good. We met and were just friends and we got closer and closer. mistaken identity porn spenceronud892.xtgem.com We started to share our past rather it be about relationships, family issues, things we liked and didn’t like to do. About 2 months into talking to him he asked me out and within the 3rd month he said he was in love with me. I fell deeply in love with him and I thought he was my match and my soul mate from then on. The first couple months were good until things started to go south. civ 6 porn www.tellur.com.ua It started when this phone number was continuously calling him late at night around 3 in the morning and I would constantly ask who it was. At times he would say no one and then he would tell me it’s his ex-girlfriend. Well I said why don’t you answer it? He replies and says because I don’t want to, there’s no point because she hurt me and I’m done with her. So I brushed it off but it kept happening so I asked to explain why they broke up. loli porn games wiki-mixer.win He said she lied about who she was online and she just hurt him. Moving forward I let that go seeing we were together and thought nothing more of the ex. I let this guy move in with me because his parents kicked him out and he had nowhere to go. I fed him clothed him pretty much was there for him through it all. joey fisher porn postheaven.net Now things got worse when I would see him texting other girls, and sexting. We would argue and he would tell me it wasn’t like that or say he doesn’t know why he did it and that he loved me I was the only girl for him. I forgave and things went back on track. Then this would happen again either with a coworker or some girl online I would confront same outcome. brother sister incest porn tysonhgtp666.xtgem.com He made me so paranoid that I would go through his phone when he would be sleep or make fake accounts or numbers and text him to see how he would reply back. When I would confront him with evidence he would be in denial and we argue more or he would pull the, you don’t trust me card or I knew that was you the entire time when I know that was a lie. I would forgive him and life would be good again. On to the 2nd year we would talk more about building and he would say how he loved and wanted to marry me start a family together. club penguin porn charlie-wiki.win I was still in college and playing on the basketball team and I didn’t want to just halt everything. He would tell me a baby would bring us closer and that I was his life. Still occasionally or I shall say when I would find out the infidelity of cheating texting other girls would happen still. But I decided to have a child with him and I feel like that was the biggest mistake. destiny diaz porn myinfotube2.theburnward.com I felt alone the entire pregnancy he was somewhat emotionally there for me. 2 weeks before our sons due date he walked out on me and was gone for a week. Then eventually asked for my forgiveness and I took him back. in the course of being pregnant between the porn websites dating websites the texting of the girls and me finding panties in the car from under our mattress I was fed up and there were excuses for it al. vr incest porn forum.tesvikler.net sorry I’m all over the place there’s just so much that has happened. Our son is 5 months old now and we got into an altercation and he has left again and won’t even come see his son won’t answer phone calls messages. he is also on drugs (weed and on probation for it but that doesn’t faze him one bit) I try and try with hi second chances I try to fix him but I find myself hurt or everyone thinks I’m crazy ohhh and the e girlfriend I mentioned of his earlier every time we get in fight he calls her when he knows that affects me I’ve cried my eyes out to him saying why can’t you leave her alone etc.. african flower porn newcoachspace9.raidersfanteamshop.com And he doesn’t see the issue with them talking??? I need help I want to leave my friends and family think I need to but I love this guy so much.




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Dragi „99 de probleme”,




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Iti place sa ii ajuti pe ceilalti pentru ca te face sa te simti bine. As analiza cu adevarat aceasta observatie de sine si as petrece ceva timp reflectand si explorand motivele pentru care gandesti si te simti in acest fel. Te simti vinovat sa ai grija de tine? Simtiti ca nu meritati sa va iubiti sau sa va fie rusine sa va iubiti? 




            I will not try to diagnose your significant other as a narcissist because I do not have the authority to do so, I am not a medical doctor or a psychiatrist.  I do however notice that your relationship went kind of fast from first meeting to declaring him your soul mate. demon slayer nezuko porn help.crimeastar.net   What did he do that made you feel this way?  The way you describe things here the sketchy behavior started pretty early on with the mysterious 3am phone calls.  One thing that many of us who have lived through a relationship of any kind with a narcissist is that they always keep supply around.  This supply is usually in the form of ex-boyfriend/girlfriends, ex-friends, or an ex-anything.  They tell us these people are obsessed with them or just can’t let go when in reality they are secretly maintaining these relationships but they do so in a way that we would never suspect. misty quinn porn www.joi3.com   By the time the relationship is over we have also been turned into one of the crazy obsessed ex’s. 




At such a young age you should really make a plan and focus on your priorities.  Ask yourself how you want to see your life play out and what behavior is acceptable and unacceptable in your close relationships, including with family.  Really spend some time evaluating ALL of your relationships because I have the feeling you are holding onto some other relationships that may also be toxic for you. luke harrington porn golifecenter5.mystrikingly.com   My advice here is to let this guy go.  Yes it is going to hurt because you love him but you need to love yourself and your baby more.  I suggest finding a system of support from people who are currently not involved in your life.  Distance yourself emotionally for a little while and seek counseling. novaruu porn mike-wiki.win   If you have health insurance I would visit your family doctor and ask for advice on where to find a therapist without going into too much detail.  If you do not have access to these resources please message the page again so we can help you locate some resources in your area.  A lot of communities have places you can turn to if you are on a limited budget with limited resources.  I believe it would be in your best interest and the babies to take steps that will allow you to become strong, stable, and self-reliant. pov ebony porn writeablog.net I am not saying to shut the world out.  I am saying seek a system of support emotionally, seek therapy to learn new ways of forming relationships, and learn how to set healthy boundaries.  You deserve to be treated the same way you treat others.  You deserve to love and be loved. christina ricci porn amantespastoraleman.com   Make a plan, get back into school, and start building a great life because you deserve it!  Learn from this relationship and later on down the road you will have the skills necessary to never be treated like this again or accept being treated this way.  You are very young and have the power to make changes in your life.  You are also old enough to set boundaries if someone is treating you poorly. 




   If you are uncomfortable, initially, with seeking help then a great place to start when you need to figure out what if anything is wrong is Google scholar. citi porn youcoachone7.theburnward.com   I wouldn’t do a regular internet search on this subject but get information from very reliable sources.  Search for things that you are wondering about “Emotional abuse” “infidelity” “red flags of abuse” etc.  We have all found our way here because of that initial Google search and while it is wonderful being able to connect with others who share your experience and pain it should be limited to just that, sharing experiences.  In order to heal learn about what has happened to you from professionals and professional sources. teen porn pictures www.techsupportforum.com   I can share my experience and give advice but I can’t show you how to heal because I have no experience, other than my own, on which to reference.  Each of us are on our own journeys and it is up to each of us on how hard we work to heal from the trauma we have endured.  I will list some articles, journals, and basic information that may be helpful for you and the rest is up to you.  Good luck on your healing journey and if you need emotional support we are always here for a shoulder to lean on!




Regards,




Narcissist Problems




Here is an idea on where to start from resources available on Google Scholar








ROBERT N. RASKIN and CALVIN S. HALL




Psychological Reports 1979 45:2 , 590-590












Psychological Trauma and the Adult Survivor: Theory, Therapy, and Transformation




 By I. Lisa McCann PhD., Laurie Anne Pearlman PhD.
















Dating infidelity: Behaviors, reasons and consequences.




Roscoe, Bruce; Cavanaugh, Lauri E.; Kennedy, Donna R.




Adolescence, Vol 23(89), 1988, 35-43.








Surveyed 247 17–23 yr olds concerning 3 issues: behaviors that constitute infidelity in a dating relationship, reasons for a dating partner to be unfaithful, and reactions to a dating partner’s infidelity. Responses indicate more similarities than differences between dating infidelity and extramarital affairs with regard to behaviors, causes, and consequences. Results are discussed in terms of similarities between dating and marital infidelity and the rationale for professionals to interact with adolescents concerning the potential long-term consequences of dating infidelity. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved)