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Sambata seara in Stoney Creek: sushi, socializare si sex

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De Teri PecoskieSpectator Reporter

The Hamilton Spectator

Sambata, 24 mai 2014 cronometru 4 min. citit

Sushi, socializarea si vizionarea altor persoane fac sex.

Este doar o alta sambata in Stoney Creek.

Comunitatea somnorosa este un loc putin probabil pentru cel mai nou hanger-ul Swinger al lui Hamilton. Dar lui Bob si Cindy ii plac asa. Liniste.

„Cu totii ne pastram confidentialitatea si nu vrem sa aflam”, a spus ea. „Cu totii avem aceleasi lucruri de pierdut”.

Bob si Cindy sunt casatoriti cu 40 de ani, care sunt impreuna de mai bine de 20 de ani. Ca majoritatea oaspetilor, au cariere si copii – oameni care nu stiu cum isi petrec weekendurile.

Ei au acceptat sa vorbeasca cu The Spectator despre stilul lor de viata cu conditia anonimatului. De asemenea, ne-au rugat sa protejam locatia noului club.

Ei spun ca este un spatiu curat, confortabil, in care oamenii ca ei se pot exprima si cu siguranta nu exista prostitutie sau droguri.

Un agent de politie care a anchetat este de acord.

Detectivul constantean Sara Martin de la unitatea de vice si droguri spune ca a vizitat locuinta luna trecuta si nu a gasit nimic ilegal sau penal.

“O compar cu o petrecere Super Bowl”, a spus ea. „Este o petrecere privata care este condusa in confidentialitatea propriei case si esti liber sa faci ceea ce iti place.”

Consilierul Brad Clark a cerut politiei sa investigheze dupa ce a primit un sfat anonim pe 22 aprilie – la 10 zile de la prima petrecere a cuplului.

De asemenea, el a cerut orasului sa verifice daca exista incalcari ale legislatiei municipale.

Bob si Cindy spun ca nu intentionau sa organizeze petreceri sexuale atunci cand au cumparat bungalowul extins in februarie. Cuplul are o alta casa in care locuiesc si aceasta a fost destinata inchirierii.

In schimb, au transformat-o intr-un club privat pentru prietenii lor din stilul de viata.

Pentru Cindy, un voyeur, a fost solutia perfecta. Ea si Bob au incercat cluburi si petreceri pentru swingeri, dar niciuna nu s-a potrivit.

Asa ca au scapat de casa si au personalizat-o pentru intalniri, trei sambata pe luna. Este gol restul timpului.

Din exterior, nu exista prea multe lucruri care separa locul de alte persoane pe strada linistita rezidentiala. In interior este o poveste diferita.

Dincolo de usa din fata este o „zona sociala” inconjurata de canapele din piele rosie. Pe peretele din spate, exista o pereche de mese pentru bufetul cald si rece complementar.

Un ring de dans – complet cu lumina stroboscopa – este ascuns in spatele unei mici bucatarii. Si dedesubt, se afla o „zona de joaca” cu orice pat de dimensiuni King.

La ultimul etaj sunt trei dormitoare private cu lubrifiant si prezervative la indemana. Exista chiar si o camera pentru fumatori cu fani de inalta tehnologie, astfel incat oaspetii nu trebuie sa iasa afara.

Cuplul a mers la lungimi mari pentru a-si asigura intimitatea – ziduri izolante fonice si geamuri inghetate. Au facut, de asemenea, masuri pentru a se asigura ca nu doar cineva apare.

Oaspetii potentiali trebuie sa solicite prin intermediul site-ului lor web, www.theclubhousehamilton.com. Apoi, cuplul le ecraneaza cu atentie pentru a stabili daca este o „potrivire buna”.

“Suntem foarte selectivi cu cine permitem sa vina”, a spus Cindy.

Ei spun ca cei care fac taierea sunt la fel de eclectici ca preferintele lor sexuale – toata lumea, de la profesori si pompieri pana la pensionari. Unii dau, altii iau, iar altii, precum Cindy, la fel ca sa urmareasca.

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“When everyone thinks of a swinger, they think of an orgy in the ’70s,” said Bob. “When we say swinger, it could just be someone who likes to show her top.”

“It’s not a preconceived idea,” he added.

On party nights, the 50-or-so guests pay a cover charge — $20 for single women, and $40 for couples and single men. But Bob and Cindy insist it is not a money-making venture, and it’s definitely not a business.

“We are not profiting from what we’re doing,” she said. “We agreed that as long as it covers the mortgage, as long as it’s making as much as a lease would, we’d like to continue, because it’s fun for us and it’s fun for our friends.

“It’s fun for the community we belong to.”

Bob and Cindy say there’s a demand in Hamilton for this type of lifestyle experience. There are several commercial clubs in southern Ontario and a handful of house parties in the city — but in their view, they don’t quite cater to the same preferences.

The Spectator asked city staff whether the couple’s arrangement constituted a business. We also asked if the club, which advertises free parking at a nearby public school, was breaking any municipal laws.

Spokesperson Mike Kirkopoulos says staff are aware of the situation and looking into it. Clark has also requested that the city monitor the home to see that privacy is being maintained — that whatever is happening inside is out of public view.

Clark hasn’t heard of any breaches.

“As long as bylaws are not being broken, as long as there’s no criminal activity, then, what people do in their homes, as Pierre Trudeau said, is their business,” he said. “The state shouldn’t be in the bedroom.”

Several neighbours agreed.

“I really don’t have a problem with it, as long as they keep to themselves,” one man said.

The neighbour also joked he was relieved to find out there was “only” sex going on at the home. With no one living there, he initially suspected it might be a marijuana grow operation.

Another neighbour said what the couple did was “their business,” but worried about how the party-goers were getting home.

“My concern is when they all leave there, when they’ve been drinking, partying and who knows what else,” she said. While the couple says they don’t supply or sell alcohol at their parties, guests are permitted to bring their own booze.

The neighbour also had fears about the effect the parties would have on her quiet area of Stoney Creek. There’s nothing against the law, she said, “it’s just a nuisance in the neighbourhood.”

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