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In timp ce piciorul fetisism, sau podophilia, nu este mai putin frecvente, este inca considerat „acolo“ – in parte pentru ca oamenii cel mai des aud despre fetisuri picior in stiri ca un factor de comportament care este de fapt infiorator, cum ar fi inregistrarea video picioarele oamenilor. Dar aceasta fixare sexuala, considerata de unii a fi rezultatul unei cresteri intre regiunile creierului care corespund cu organele genitale si cu picioarele, este o sursa de emotie pentru multe persoane si partenerii lor. Trei femei anonime s-au deschis la Cosmopolitan.com despre cum este sa fii intr-o relatie cu un fetisist.
Cati ani ai?
Femeia A: douazeci si trei.
Femeia B: douazeci si sapte.
Femeia C: douazeci si sapte.
Care este orientarea ta sexuala?
Femeia A: Sunt atrasa de ambele sexe.
Femeia B: Sunt drept.
Femeia C: Sunt atrasa de barbati.
Cum ai aflat despre fetisul piciorului partenerului tau?
Femeia A: Eram o adolescenta si stiam deja despre fetis pentru ca era cel mai bun prieten al meu inainte de intalnire. Tocmai am facut afara si i-am spus ca poate sa se joace cu picioarele mele daca vrea. L-am intrebat cu cateva luni inainte daca are vreo fetisa. Am fost magulit ca mi-a spus, cand nimeni altcineva nu stia. A fost, de asemenea, prima oara cand a actionat la fetisul piciorului, asa ca era prea timid sa faca altceva decat sa-mi tina unul dintre picioare in timp ce ma saruta … Suntem inca impreuna.
Femeia B: Sunt pro domme de sapte ani, asa ca am facut si am jucat o multime de jocuri cu piciorul platit, care nu includeau sex. Am fost foarte familiarizat cu fetistii cu piciorul cu mult inainte de a ma agita cu unul pentru distractie … Am acum un partener de sex casual de lunga durata, care iubeste mai mult decat orice. E intepator si asa sunt si eu, asa ca mi-a povestit despre asta la prima noastra intalnire cand comparam kink-uri.
Femeia C: Am fost cu iubitul meu actual de aproximativ trei ani inainte sa stiu ca are un fetis la picior (suntem de aproape sase ani acum, iar restul relatiei noastre este complet regulat. Avem copii, locuri de munca, un casa, lucruri obisnuite). Sunt dispus sa arunc orice vartej in pat pentru a vedea daca il va excita. [La cativa ani in relatia noastra,] Am inceput sa-mi pun picioarele in fata lui si i-a placut foarte mult sarutul, linsul si suptul lor. Dupa o luna sau ceva de zile in care am observat ca picioarele mele erau intotdeauna implicate cand faceam sex, l-am intrebat de ce a fost asta. Am sfarsit purtand o conversatie foarte lunga si foarte profunda la telefon despre cum a avut intotdeauna o fetisa la picior.
I was completely taken by surprise, because I thought I knew everything about him by that point. It turns out that the society we live in and how people react to foot fetishists had caused him to feel an incredibly deep shame, so deep that he wasn’t willing to reveal it to his long-term girlfriend because he believed anyone would mock him for it … He says that it’s almost all of his sexuality — for example, some people are attracted to blondes, boobs, butts, or some mixture of turn-ons, but for him it’s feet, feet, feet.
What was your reaction?
Woman A: Feet don’t turn me on at all, but I think it’s brilliant. I love the fact that something so innocuous can turn him on so easily … Also, it’s nice to know that even if I put on a lot of weight there’d still be at least one part of my body he’d still find attractive.
Woman B: I love foot play a lot, to the point where a man becomes more attractive to me if I know he has a foot fetish.
Woman C: Overall my reaction was disbelief that someone could keep something they like hidden, or feel like they should keep it hidden. I was also really excited that I was able to make our sex life even better. He regretted not telling me sooner because he could have been having years of great sex with me.
What foot-related acts does your sex life include?
Woman A: Mainly him just smelling them and licking them. If I’m ever not in the mood for sex, I can just tell him to ejaculate on my feet instead and then we’re both happy. I’ll talk about my feet being hot or sweaty to turn him on (obviously not in front of other people), and I’ve kept hold of a pair of shoes that make my feet smell because I know he likes them.
Woman B: Generally, foot fetishists want to kiss, lick, and suck on feet. Sometimes they prefer the feet to be kind of sweaty … Usually when my partner comes over, I have him give me a foot massage while we chitchat before the sex. He’s submissive to me, so sometimes I shove them pretty far down his throat or or order him to kiss him. I usually make him jerk off on them at the end and lick it up, or I use my feet to rub the cum all over his face.
Woman C: He is into anything I can think of that involves my feet. He doesn’t like my feet dirty or smelly, and I wouldn’t like him to hurt my feet or be hurt by them, so we don’t do that. A foot massage can involve a happy ending for him if I’m not interested in getting off myself, and it can turn into a full-body massage with a happy ending for both of us if I do want it.
Sometimes I get cheeky and arouse him in public, which I feel slightly bad for, but it always means getting some really insistent and hot sex later on in private. And sometimes we just have regular vanilla or not-so-vanilla sex not involving my feet. Positions where my feet are in his face are the best, because I get off on getting him off. I also sometimes lick and suck my own feet and he watches, which gets him off really quickly, which is good for me because I’m only that flexible for so long.
Do you give foot jobs? If so, what is that like?
Woman A: I have a couple of times. You need to be in a really awkward position and it makes my bum and thighs cramp a bit. If you’re flexible enough, a good alternative is a hand job but with your toes rubbing the head of the penis or foot pressed against the base. It’s got the same psychological and aesthetic benefits but is a lot easier to do.
Woman B: I think I gave my partner a foot job to completion exactly once … I just shoved my feet together and made him do most of the work.
Woman C: Foot jobs are always a winner, but they are pretty difficult because it involves moving almost all of your legs to get the right movements going and then you have to maintain it and then get faster. Tiring stuff. Also looks really stupid from my perspective. But it works.
Do you pay more attention to how your feet look because of your partner’s fetish?
Woman A: Not really. I’ve always taken good care of my feet and I’ve always thought I had very nice feet. It makes me slightly more determined not to let them build up hard skin when I’m older, but I would prefer that didn’t happen whether or not I was dating someone with a foot fetish. I don’t bother with pedicures at all.
Woman B: Despite making lots of money off my feet and having a regular foot fetish hook-up, I don’t actually take the greatest care of my feet. I try to keep them painted, but honestly I’m behind on that right now and I haven’t had a real pedicure in close to a year. I should probably get on that. Those Babyfoot [exfoliator] things are cool though. Last time I did one, I fed the dead skin to, like, three different clients.
Woman C: I don’t get pedicures or take much more care of my feet than ever. I’m pretty lazy about it: I’m clean but not excessive. I exfoliate and moisturize everywhere, including my feet. Sometimes I even just apply more nail polish on top when [my pedicure] starts to chip … It’s always black, it’s a nice contrast with my pale skin. Sometimes I make a point of painting them in front of him — he likes that.
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What else do you want to share about foot fetishes?
Woman A: I don’t get people who are grossed out by them. It’s no weirder than liking breasts or butts — their primary purpose is also not sexual gratification. According to people on the internet, everyone with a foot fetish is a pervert who wants to involve you in their fetish without your consent and is easy to spot. Of course, in reality, there’s probably plenty of men who nobody knows likes feet because they behave perfectly normally around women. People only notice the weird ones and then assume they’re all like that. It’s like assuming all vegans are preachy.
Woman B: I will say that I do find the possibility of a biological basis for foot fetishes extremely plausible. I always ask my clients how they became interested in BDSM, and the foot fetishists always say that it started with feet, and that they’ve been interested in feet for as long as they can remember.
Woman C: I knew that a fetish was a permanent part of a person’s sexuality [before I learned about my partner’s fetish], and that it can spill out of the bedroom too. I’d never encountered anyone with a fetish before, but I doubt I’d have judged them. I’d always think less of someone that litters than someone who [has a fetish].
I’m really accepting and he takes me as I am too. His fetish isn’t harming anyone and I believe no one should be ashamed of it. I’m glad he’s not vanilla — that would mean the rest of our life together would be pretty boring.
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